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February 25th, 2010 | 
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Wife thinks laser hair removal will mean I change sex…even though I say it won't…what to do?
Why does my wife resent me spending money on myself?
I never expected my wife to support my crossdressing. But whatever I do that does’nt involve her, ay if I visited my mom who she hates, she is highly critical of. It’s not enough that 95% of my money goes into the household, the other 5% for me, in the form of savings, or whatever I want to spend it on. Since we got our own home four years ago, we no longer have a joint account because the money from that went into a deposit on the house. She got fired from her job last year and has always wanted a shop of her own, so she opened one, with my support. She has left her family and home country to come live with me. She did love me I’m sure, but part of the reason was to get away from her family too.
She has since said how she regrets leaving her safe job with the government. But I have done my best to make it a good life for us.
She has tried to accomodate me…buying me clothes, perfume and so on…but then she would complain if I wore them. Because of this I think she is very two faced. So…we no longer talk about it.
Not completely unrelated is the fact I am having laser hair removal surgery…I’ll admit part of it is to give me a more feminine look when I dress up as a woman, but also to remove painful hair growth that I’ve suffered with for twenty years. My wife said today ‘you’ll want to become a woman next’ and you know what? Because she stops me doing things I want to do, even though she knew abot my ‘hobby’ before we got engaged it makes me more determined to be the person I want to be. No, she does’nt want me to wear any womens clothing, not even neutral clothing, so I feel rather angry towards her because I would’nt want it all the time, just some of the time.
She pays no money towards the household bills even though she has nearly £10,000 in the bank.
I don’t mind if I’m broke so long as we are happy and managing. But god forbid I spent anything on myself.
Because I can no longer discuss this calmly with her without her accusing me of this or that, should i just up and go and leave her with the bills..since I got made redundant this year, most of my money has gone into the home. she got a female lodger in here because she knew if she did’nt she would have to contribute some money.
It’s just no fun with her anymore. Time for me to go then and say ‘yes you are right, I want to be a woman’ even though I am just happy being a t-girl (i.e. no operation). I love her, but I have to love myself too to a certain degree. And have to save myself if she is so against anything I want to do. If it was a football season ticket, it would cost loads more, and be every year. So what to do?
You should leave her for her good. She doesn’t deserve to be with a nasty headcase. She’s done more for you than most women would, cut her a break and disappear.
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Go with her for some professional help. Both of you will benefit from it.
As to the hair removal, it will NOT change your Sexuality at all. That would take much more drastic measures.
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I’m definitely not reading all that.
But from your title, I’ll say that your wife sounds like a bimbo.
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Frankly, you seem to caught up in your own life to be involved with someone else. Best you sit down with your wife and discuss a divorce.
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You just mentioned God in one of your sentences. Why don’t you try doing what He says and make your marriage and your life happy.
Instructions for Christian Households
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, people have never hated their own bodies, but they feed and care for them, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
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Do we really need to read your autobiography? All I can say is that I am a married woman and if my husband were to do what you are doing, I would show him the door in a nanosecond. I married a man, ALL man, and you make me proud that I did.
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If your wife knew before you guys got married that you liked dressing like a women she should of supported you. She should love you no matter what. If dressing like a women makes you feel whole to yourself thats all that matters. Honestly if she is making you feel miserable I would leave her. Now let me ask you this, Does she spend money on herself? I’m sure she does, all women do. If she can do it Why can’t you? Your working hard for it too. Its not all about her and never should of been. Leave her so you can move on with your life and be happy for a change. Best of Luck to you!
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Lesbian who has been through it all
The "fairer sex" can be very wonderful, but when they get p.o’d they throw things up in ones face just out of frustration….
And I’ve heard that before about cross dressers and their wives, who are very accepting, supportive etc, and then for no reason, they do a 360 – again it’s out of frustration..
I myself am a long time married cross dresser with a very understanding, supportive,accepting, knowledgeable, and helpful wife, who has taught me all the traits to emulate women from presentation, to walking, standing, sitting, mannerisms, make up, hair, nails, etc and I have a very extensive wardrobe including 42 pair of HIGH HEELS (and I do mean HIGH) , and about the onlky things my wife has commented on was the fact that I constantly buy HIGH HEELS and says how many pair can you wear at once… A woman never has enough HIGH HEELS… Also the fact that I tend to wear a bit too much make up, but this is me – no two girls are alike, n’est pas..
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